We came across some great wisdom out of UNLV; written by Mr. Adam Snow and felt it our duty to share it with you. Please read this short article with a powerful message.
Can you do what he asks? LiFE continues to move and evolve around us. Capturing a mere moment in time while missing all the supporting moments may not be the best bet. LiFE is NOW…® You be the judge.
Well said, Mr. Snow.
Instead of focusing on how to best document memories on social media sites, people should just enjoy events as they occur
‘Tis the season to be jolly, celebrate the coming of winter break and put your damn cell phones down.
The urge to document (and share) everything is an understandable one, but just because we have the ability to do something previous generations couldn’t even dream of, doesn’t necessarily mean we should.
The obsessive way some of us go about recording everything we see, saving it as a convenient JPEG or video to be viewed years down the line, actually seems to make us miss more than we could ever hope to remember. It’s nice being behind the camera, framing a shot, or feeling an eagerness to share your creation with the world — this is pretty normal.
But, like most things in life, a lack of moderation does a world of damage. And unfortunately, unlike most things in life, the effects of overindulgence can be hard to realize in this case. From what I’ve seen among my own circle of friends, people who spend their lives curating and uploading everything they see tend to be more depressed. It’s a sharp contrast to the happy life they try to paint online.
The concept of losing something that would be easy to keep is horrifying. Your friends are funny, and your outfit looks cute, and we want to keep it forever. It’s natural. But we can’t indulge that need.
Maybe sometimes, like when your best friend has a baby shower, or your little cousin is finally graduating from high school, but during every casual get-together with your friends? Does every weekend really need to be documented?
Lowering your cell phone — or turning it off, or leaving it in the other room completely— will make your life much more enjoyable. Instead of observing the fun, or thinking about how you’re going to caption a memory when you post it to Facebook for all to see, partake in the festivities fully, without reserve. Dive into what you would have otherwise stood outside of.
Yeah, you’re going to lose some memories along the way. Some (if not most) of the weekends will blur together. But who ever said they shouldn’t? We’re young, and maybe our twenties are supposed to be a cocktail of good times that mix together instead of a carefully organized series of events.
Real life happens in person. It exists in the moment, with a kind of silly abandon. Trust me, when you’re old and starting to see pesky grey fringe your hair, you’ll have more than enough time to slow down and take the camera out. Things will have settled by then.
Things aren’t settled now, and that light piece of plastic, metal and glass in your pocket is a greater weight than you think it is. It may seem like the future, but it’s slowing you down and holding you in the past.
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